CAJ | 학술논문

目的：探讨固定性伴是男男性行为者（MSM）的女性之相关生活、态度和认知，从当事人角度了解该群体面对的挑战。方法：主要依托固定性伴是MSM的女性所创办的同妻网站进行动员，调查对象限定为其固定性伴是MSM的在婚、已离异或尚未结婚的女性。针对不同亚人群共设计出三套问卷。数据收集通过互联网调查软件“问卷星”进行。结果：有效样本144例，在婚组100人，离异组33人，未婚组11人。与MSM固定性伴在经济上是“AA制”者约3/5。有婚史者认为MSM结婚的最重要原因是亲长要求，用婚姻来证明其“正常”。在知道（对方是MSM）真相前，MSM对固定性伴仅1/4有过主动亲吻行为，性交时3/10喜欢爱抚女性乳房。有婚史者中多数人通过MSM的移动互联网活动发现真相，约1/6直接发现MSM与其他男性的性交往；结婚3年后才知道真相者约2/5，在女方说出真相时，对方承认者不足3/10，MSM婚后主动说出真相者不足1/11。知道真相后她们几乎都曾试图尽多了解MSM固定性伴，少数人甚至雇用私家侦探。在婚组中与MSM有子女者3/4，已分居者约1/4；尚未离异的最重要原因首先是顾忌到子女和财产分配，认为自己生活（较）幸福者仅1/12。离异组中女方提出离异者9/10，通过法院离婚近1/10；女方“净身出户”或仅得到很少财产者占3/5；离异前的最大顾虑是对子女、自己和亲长的影响；离异的最重要原因是认为自己有权利寻找幸福婚姻和夫妻性生活严重不和谐。有婚史者在婚期间有过婚外性伴者3/10，其原因首先是解决性饥渴，恢复自信心和宣泄对MSM固定性伴的不满。该女性群体在为性伴侣状况苦恼时普遍得到过帮助，但最重要的帮助者通常是互联网上的“同妻”、亲人和女友，她们希望获得心理专家、法律专家和艾滋病性病专家帮助。她们中知道同性爱是正常现象者仅1/3；有婚史者中对与MSM结婚仅3％不后悔，约9/10反对MSM与女性结婚，普遍认为若提前知道真相则不会与MSM结婚，MSM隐瞒真相结婚是对女性权益的重大伤害；认为与MSM结婚未对自己造成重大伤害者仅1/12，认为应同情MSM者仅1/9。她们普遍认为我国有关性向的性科学教育严重不足，应加强这一教育。她们认为MSM权益得到保障有助于MSM不结婚者占2/3，认为同性婚姻应合法化者约1/2，认为应有法律保护“同妻”权益者超过9/10。大多数女性对其固定性伴给予明显负面评价。结论：性别歧视和对性向现象的不知情，使固定性伴是MSM的女性的婚恋生活存在重大问题，有必要积极促进有关性别和性向平等的教育，并通过实施相关政策和立法保障女性权利。目的：探討固定性伴是男男性行為者（MSM）的女性之相關生活、態度和認知，從噹事人角度瞭解該群體麵對的挑戰。方法：主要依託固定性伴是MSM的女性所創辦的同妻網站進行動員，調查對象限定為其固定性伴是MSM的在婚、已離異或尚未結婚的女性。針對不同亞人群共設計齣三套問捲。數據收集通過互聯網調查軟件“問捲星”進行。結果：有效樣本144例，在婚組100人，離異組33人，未婚組11人。與MSM固定性伴在經濟上是“AA製”者約3/5。有婚史者認為MSM結婚的最重要原因是親長要求，用婚姻來證明其“正常”。在知道（對方是MSM）真相前，MSM對固定性伴僅1/4有過主動親吻行為，性交時3/10喜歡愛撫女性乳房。有婚史者中多數人通過MSM的移動互聯網活動髮現真相，約1/6直接髮現MSM與其他男性的性交往；結婚3年後纔知道真相者約2/5，在女方說齣真相時，對方承認者不足3/10，MSM婚後主動說齣真相者不足1/11。知道真相後她們幾乎都曾試圖儘多瞭解MSM固定性伴，少數人甚至僱用私傢偵探。在婚組中與MSM有子女者3/4，已分居者約1/4；尚未離異的最重要原因首先是顧忌到子女和財產分配，認為自己生活（較）倖福者僅1/12。離異組中女方提齣離異者9/10，通過法院離婚近1/10；女方“淨身齣戶”或僅得到很少財產者佔3/5；離異前的最大顧慮是對子女、自己和親長的影響；離異的最重要原因是認為自己有權利尋找倖福婚姻和伕妻性生活嚴重不和諧。有婚史者在婚期間有過婚外性伴者3/10，其原因首先是解決性饑渴，恢複自信心和宣洩對MSM固定性伴的不滿。該女性群體在為性伴侶狀況苦惱時普遍得到過幫助，但最重要的幫助者通常是互聯網上的“同妻”、親人和女友，她們希望穫得心理專傢、法律專傢和艾滋病性病專傢幫助。她們中知道同性愛是正常現象者僅1/3；有婚史者中對與MSM結婚僅3％不後悔，約9/10反對MSM與女性結婚，普遍認為若提前知道真相則不會與MSM結婚，MSM隱瞞真相結婚是對女性權益的重大傷害；認為與MSM結婚未對自己造成重大傷害者僅1/12，認為應同情MSM者僅1/9。她們普遍認為我國有關性嚮的性科學教育嚴重不足，應加彊這一教育。她們認為MSM權益得到保障有助于MSM不結婚者佔2/3，認為同性婚姻應閤法化者約1/2，認為應有法律保護“同妻”權益者超過9/10。大多數女性對其固定性伴給予明顯負麵評價。結論：性彆歧視和對性嚮現象的不知情，使固定性伴是MSM的女性的婚戀生活存在重大問題，有必要積極促進有關性彆和性嚮平等的教育，併通過實施相關政策和立法保障女性權利。
목적：탐토고정성반시남남성행위자（MSM）적녀성지상관생활、태도화인지，종당사인각도료해해군체면대적도전。방법：주요의탁고정성반시MSM적녀성소창판적동처망참진행동원，조사대상한정위기고정성반시MSM적재혼、이리이혹상미결혼적녀성。침대불동아인군공설계출삼투문권。수거수집통과호련망조사연건“문권성”진행。결과：유효양본144례，재혼조100인，리이조33인，미혼조11인。여MSM고정성반재경제상시“AA제”자약3/5。유혼사자인위MSM결혼적최중요원인시친장요구，용혼인래증명기“정상”。재지도（대방시MSM）진상전，MSM대고정성반부1/4유과주동친문행위，성교시3/10희환애무녀성유방。유혼사자중다수인통과MSM적이동호련망활동발현진상，약1/6직접발현MSM여기타남성적성교왕；결혼3년후재지도진상자약2/5，재녀방설출진상시，대방승인자불족3/10，MSM혼후주동설출진상자불족1/11。지도진상후저문궤호도증시도진다료해MSM고정성반，소수인심지고용사가정탐。재혼조중여MSM유자녀자3/4，이분거자약1/4；상미리이적최중요원인수선시고기도자녀화재산분배，인위자기생활（교）행복자부1/12。리이조중녀방제출리이자9/10，통과법원리혼근1/10；녀방“정신출호”혹부득도흔소재산자점3/5；리이전적최대고필시대자녀、자기화친장적영향；리이적최중요원인시인위자기유권리심조행복혼인화부처성생활엄중불화해。유혼사자재혼기간유과혼외성반자3/10，기원인수선시해결성기갈，회복자신심화선설대MSM고정성반적불만。해녀성군체재위성반려상황고뇌시보편득도과방조，단최중요적방조자통상시호련망상적“동처”、친인화녀우，저문희망획득심리전가、법률전가화애자병성병전가방조。저문중지도동성애시정상현상자부1/3；유혼사자중대여MSM결혼부3％불후회，약9/10반대MSM여녀성결혼，보편인위약제전지도진상칙불회여MSM결혼，MSM은만진상결혼시대녀성권익적중대상해；인위여MSM결혼미대자기조성중대상해자부1/12，인위응동정MSM자부1/9。저문보편인위아국유관성향적성과학교육엄중불족，응가강저일교육。저문인위MSM권익득도보장유조우MSM불결혼자점2/3，인위동성혼인응합법화자약1/2，인위응유법률보호“동처”권익자초과9/10。대다수녀성대기고정성반급여명현부면평개。결론：성별기시화대성향현상적불지정，사고정성반시MSM적녀성적혼련생활존재중대문제，유필요적겁촉진유관성별화성향평등적교육，병통과실시상관정책화입법보장녀성권리。
Objectives:To explore the life status,attitude and cognition of women who have regular sexual relationships with men who have sex with men (MSM),and point out the challenges faced by these women from the perspective of their own.Methods:The study was conducted based on the website funded by some of these women, who had regular sexual relationships with MSM.The respondents were limited to those whose regular sexual partners were MSM,including married,divorced and single women.Three types of questionnaire were designed according to different sub-groups and the data was collected by the inquisitional software of"questionnaire star".Results:The valid sample had 1 44 cases,including 1 00 married,33 divorced and 1 1 single.About 3/5 of respondents adopted"AA system"economically with their MSM sexual partners.Those having got married stated that the main reason for MSM to get married was the pressure from their family,and they wanted to confirm their family that they were "nor-mal man"by getting married with a woman.Before knowing the fact (the partner was an MSM),only 1/4 MSM ever initiated kisses to their wives,and only 3/1 0 of them liked fondling female breasts during sexual intercourse.Most of married or divorced women found out the truth via mobile-internet activities of MSM,and about 1/6 of them discov-ered the truth during the sexual relationships between MSM and other males directly;about 2/5 of them became a-ware of the truth after getting married for 3 years,but less than 3/1 0 of MSM admitted it when their spouse spoke it out.Less than 1/1 1 of them volunteered the truth after their marriage.After having known the truth,almost all of them had attempted to understand their sexual partners more,and some even hired private detectives.In the married group,3/4 women had children with MSM,and 1/4 had separate rooms from their spouses.The most important rea-son for not getting divorced was due to their children and distribution of the property.Only 1/1 2 thought good of their life.About 90%of the divorce was issued by the women;andnearly 1/1 0 fulfilled the divorce by means of court.3/5 of the women got no property or minute quantity of estates from divorce.The most important scrupulosity was the in-fluence on their offspring,themselves,and elders before the divorce;the key reason leading to divorce was that they believed that they had the right to look for a happy marriage besides the suffered sexual relationships with their MSM husbands.About 3/1 0 women in marriage used to have sexual partners besides their spouses.The major reason was to solve libido,recover confidence and let off dissatisfaction to their MSM sexual partners.This group of women had explored assistance when they suffered the distress from their sex partners,especially from the "gay-wife"chat room on the internet,and also their relatives and female friends;they wished to get help from psychologists,legal experts and AIDS and STDS experts.Only 1/3 were ware of that homosexual phenomenon was normal,while only 3%of those who had married before did not regret for getting married with MSM and about 9/1 0 were against the marriage between MSM and female.It was generally believed that they would not marry MSM if they had known the fact before,and that it was harmful to women’s rights and interests that MSM married with a woman without telling the truth.There were only 1/1 2 women who thought that marriages with MSM had not done great harm to them,and only 1/9 thought that MSM should be sympathized.They believed that education of sexology about sexual orientation was in great shortage and should be strengthened in our country.Those who believed that the protection of the MSM’ s right would help them to refuse marriage took up two thirds;those who believed that same-sex marriage should be legalized took accounts for 50%,and those who thought that the rights of the "MSM wives"should be protected by law exceed nine tenths.Most women had obviously negative opinions on their regular sexual partners.Conclusion:Gender discrimination and blinding to sexual orientation lead to the great issue toward the marriage of women whose regular sexual partner are MSM.It is necessary to explore the positive and effective education about gender discrimi-nation and sexual orientation,and establish correlative policy and legislation to safeguard the women’s rights.