厦门大学学报:哲学社会科学版
廈門大學學報:哲學社會科學版
하문대학학보:철학사회과학판
Journal of Xiamen University(A Quarterly for Studies in Arts & Social Sciences)
2012年
5期
43~51
,共null页
近代知识分子 择偶倾向 自由恋爱理想主义
近代知識分子 擇偶傾嚮 自由戀愛理想主義
근대지식분자 택우경향 자유연애이상주의
intellectuals of modem China, the tendency of choosing a spouse, freedom to choose one' s spouse, idealism
中国传统社会人们的择偶观念一向表现较为含蓄,“五四”新文化运动:不仅开启了思想启蒙之牖,而且也打开了自由恋爱之闸。其时的报刊杂志是知识男女青年获取新婚恋观的渠道,也是他们表达自己择偶心声的场所。《大公报》、《中外日报》、《东方杂志》、《妇女杂志》、《女子月刊》等都十分关注两性话题,反映出男性在接受新婚恋观时,渴盼与一位学识相当的女性,共同结成具备知己与爱情的婚姻关系;而经自由平等理念影响的知识女性,则在抗命挣脱传统婚姻枷锁后,更难抵御恋爱至上的浪漫诱惑。其时的婚恋自由开始成为青年知识男女的共同诉求。然而,由于新旧观念的冲突与杂糅,男性在婚恋中期盼的实际上是同时具备新知识和旧道德的女性;而女性在爱情理想中既追求人格平等,又仍然执着于寻求男性的庇护。
中國傳統社會人們的擇偶觀唸一嚮錶現較為含蓄,“五四”新文化運動:不僅開啟瞭思想啟矇之牖,而且也打開瞭自由戀愛之閘。其時的報刊雜誌是知識男女青年穫取新婚戀觀的渠道,也是他們錶達自己擇偶心聲的場所。《大公報》、《中外日報》、《東方雜誌》、《婦女雜誌》、《女子月刊》等都十分關註兩性話題,反映齣男性在接受新婚戀觀時,渴盼與一位學識相噹的女性,共同結成具備知己與愛情的婚姻關繫;而經自由平等理唸影響的知識女性,則在抗命掙脫傳統婚姻枷鎖後,更難牴禦戀愛至上的浪漫誘惑。其時的婚戀自由開始成為青年知識男女的共同訴求。然而,由于新舊觀唸的遲突與雜糅,男性在婚戀中期盼的實際上是同時具備新知識和舊道德的女性;而女性在愛情理想中既追求人格平等,又仍然執著于尋求男性的庇護。
중국전통사회인문적택우관념일향표현교위함축,“오사”신문화운동:불부개계료사상계몽지유,이차야타개료자유연애지갑。기시적보간잡지시지식남녀청년획취신혼련관적거도,야시타문표체자기택우심성적장소。《대공보》、《중외일보》、《동방잡지》、《부녀잡지》、《녀자월간》등도십분관주량성화제,반영출남성재접수신혼련관시,갈반여일위학식상당적녀성,공동결성구비지기여애정적혼인관계;이경자유평등이념영향적지식녀성,칙재항명쟁탈전통혼인가쇄후,경난저어연애지상적랑만유혹。기시적혼련자유개시성위청년지식남녀적공동소구。연이,유우신구관념적충돌여잡유,남성재혼련중기반적실제상시동시구비신지식화구도덕적녀성;이녀성재애정이상중기추구인격평등,우잉연집착우심구남성적비호。
The concept of choice of spouses always has been veiled in traditional Chinese society. The May 4th New Cul- tural Movement not only opened the window of enlightenment thought, but also the sluice of free low~. Newspapers and maga- zines in that era were channels for young men and women to obtain a new marriage concept, and were arena to express their own voice. Ta Kung Pao, ZhongWai Daily, The Eastern Miscellany, The Ladies'Journal and The Ladies' Monthly were con- cerned about the topic of gender. When a man accepted the new concept of marriage, he was eager to marry a woman with rel- atively equivalent education, and formed a marital relationship with confidant and love. After the traditional marriage shackles were broken , female intellectuals affected by the concept of freedom and equality were unlikely to resist romantic temptation of the love supreme. Freedom of marriage and love became the common demands for young intellectuals in that era. However, owing to the conflict and hybridity of the old and the new values, men looked forward to women with new knowledge and old moral in the process of marriage and love ,while, women pursued both personality equality and male aegis.