心理科学进展
心理科學進展
심이과학진전
Advances In Psychological Science
2014年
1期
104~111
,共null页
张田 丁雪辰 翁晶 傅宏 薛艳
張田 丁雪辰 翁晶 傅宏 薛豔
장전 정설신 옹정 부굉 설염
宽恕 结果 避免伤害 增加伤害
寬恕 結果 避免傷害 增加傷害
관서 결과 피면상해 증가상해
forgiveness; consequences; deter repeat offenses; encourage repeat offenses
宽恕的结果包含两个方面,一是就被冒犯者而言的结果,二是就冒犯者而言的结果。就被冒犯者而言,宽恕的积极结果已被广泛证实,但就冒犯者的行为而言,以往研究的结果并不一致。有研究指出,宽恕会导致进一步伤害的发生,但也有研究指出,宽恕能够降低进一步伤害的可能性。出现这种不一致结论的原因在于,不同研究对于宽恕与和解的关系、冒犯者的内心体验和双方人际互动的认识不一致,但进一步分析可以发现,认为宽恕会避免进一步伤害的证据更充分,因此宽恕仍然是处理人际伤害的有效方式。但无论是被冒犯者还是冒犯者,在做出宽恕决定或是接受他人的宽恕时,仍有一些方面要加以注意。
寬恕的結果包含兩箇方麵,一是就被冒犯者而言的結果,二是就冒犯者而言的結果。就被冒犯者而言,寬恕的積極結果已被廣汎證實,但就冒犯者的行為而言,以往研究的結果併不一緻。有研究指齣,寬恕會導緻進一步傷害的髮生,但也有研究指齣,寬恕能夠降低進一步傷害的可能性。齣現這種不一緻結論的原因在于,不同研究對于寬恕與和解的關繫、冒犯者的內心體驗和雙方人際互動的認識不一緻,但進一步分析可以髮現,認為寬恕會避免進一步傷害的證據更充分,因此寬恕仍然是處理人際傷害的有效方式。但無論是被冒犯者還是冒犯者,在做齣寬恕決定或是接受他人的寬恕時,仍有一些方麵要加以註意。
관서적결과포함량개방면,일시취피모범자이언적결과,이시취모범자이언적결과。취피모범자이언,관서적적겁결과이피엄범증실,단취모범자적행위이언,이왕연구적결과병불일치。유연구지출,관서회도치진일보상해적발생,단야유연구지출,관서능구강저진일보상해적가능성。출현저충불일치결론적원인재우,불동연구대우관서여화해적관계、모범자적내심체험화쌍방인제호동적인식불일치,단진일보분석가이발현,인위관서회피면진일보상해적증거경충분,인차관서잉연시처리인제상해적유효방식。단무론시피모범자환시모범자,재주출관서결정혹시접수타인적관서시,잉유일사방면요가이주의。
The consequences of forgiveness involve two aspects. The first is the consequence to the victims, and the secend is to the offenders. From the aspect of the victims, the positive role of forgiveness has been well confirmed, but from the aspect of the offenders, there are several inconsistencies among previous studies. Some studies showed that forgiveness would deter repeat offenses, while other studies revealed that forgiveness would encourage them. The conflicting of views on the relationship between forgiveness and reconciliation, on the inner experience of offenders, and on the interaction between the victims and offenders may contribute to the inconsistencies. However, further analysis shows that the viewpoint of deterring further offenses is more reasonable, and forgiveness is an effective way in dealing with interpersonal hurt. Finally, when the victims decide to forgive or the offenders accept the forgiveness, some issues are of note.